If any of you have been keeping up with my blog then you know I wrote a post about a girl who was stalking me. As lately we became friends. We never meet in person and have been chatting for months now. We have exchanged photos and im+. I may of been a little flirty at times. So I am kind of to blame here.
So I noticed how attached she has become to me. Its weird she treats me like a boyfriend. She gets mad when I miss a chat. She gets jealous when I talk to other girls on facebook. She admits her felling for me, telling me she loves me. I’ve been honest with her. I don’t want a relationship. I just want to be friends. She says its not her its heart and can’t help how she feels about me. She told me this once before. I wrote about it in my last post about her, but back then she was a stalker not my friend.
So I did take an interest in her to see if there was any chemistry or if we have anything in common. What did I have to loose right. I could gain a girl friend here or break someone’s heart. So I asked her questions about her life. What her likes and dislikes etc. Now that I’ve gotten to know her better. I have to been honest with myself.
We’ve got nothing in common. She boring and has no vision for her life. She has no interests or hobbies either. She values a man more than herself. I like strong confident women and she’s is not. So I’ve made my choice. I can’t be with her. Maybe if we clicked and loved some of the same stuff it could of worked.
So this weekend on saturday I told her how I felt. Its pretty long so I won’t worry you with the details. All I know is that I broke that poor girls heart. I had no choice. She usually never takes no for a answer ,but I think this time I finally got through to her. She never spoke to me ever since that message on saturday.
Its finally over and I felt bad about what I did but it was something I had to do. Late sunday night watching tv she sends me a message like nothing ever happened. Guess what! I failed. She’s back and persistent. Can’t blame a girl for trying but this is getting annoying seriously. What am I doing wrong here girls!
Getting sued is no joke but the reason I was getting sued was! I wrote a article a while back about how some people get famous through facebook. Because I thought it was interesting and would make a great article. So I wrote the article. The other people I wrote about had no problem with my article accept for this one girl. She insisted I take off the article. I didn’t write anything bad about her. In fact I wrote good things.
She had a problem with it and inboxed me on facebook asking me who gave me permission to write about her. She argued for a while as I tried to take it all in. Guess I assumed I had freedom of speech until she threaten me with a law suit. It was scary at 1st but luckily for me my friend is studying law and i got his advice. My friend advised me that she can’t sue me as long as I didn’t break defamation of character, which I didn’t.
Even with the law on my side I didn’t want to piss off this girl anymore. So I took off the article. After all her bullshit, she told me its great what you doing and that maybe if I got to know her better maybe then she would let me write about her after asking for permission of course. Lmao she unfriended me on facebook after that conversation so her words was lies. Maybe I shouldn’t of been nice in the article. In all honesty it was a great article but one I had to discard thanks to miss high and mighty.
Sometimes doing nice things don’t pay of, instead you get sued. So anyone writing articles about people make sure not to break that person’s defamation of character or will get sued. This is just a tip and advice to all your bloggers. Learn from my mistakes and keep on writing.
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Finally just when you think you ready to quite the single life and get back into the dating game. Until the unexpected happens that you makes realise that you wasn’t. Yesterday I got a friend request from a girl on facebook. So of course I accepted. Later that day she inboxes me private messages asking me how I am and that she’s like to be friends. So I replied the best I could. After all that she asked me for my BBM pin (blackberry messenger). So I gave her.
I so regret giving her my BBM pin because she’s crazy, insecure and desperate for attention but I will get to that in a bit. We started chatting on BBM and then things got personal. She started asking about my love life. If I was married, dating or single. I told her I was single and asked her the same question. she said she was also single. She was showing interest In me so I did the same.
Things went downhill after she asked me if I’m going for a certain party. I told her that I’m not sure because there’s a wedding in my family that I have to go to. But actually its my neighbour daughter that’s getting married. So she asked me if I could take her to the wedding. I wasn’t sure how to answer that question. So I said yes thinking she’s joking or flirting. Then she tells me she’s serious. I took long to reply this time. Then sends me another message now. This time she’s upset saying oh its not like I’m your girl friend or anything.
So I replied and said yes we just friends and we barely know each other. Then she said ok but I want to get to know you. So I said yeah sure. But 20 minutes later she’s gone crazy again ,Saying! You keep on telling me you want to get to know me, I can’t wait anymore, I waited so long. You don’t even want to give me 5 minutes of happiness.
So I asked her what do you want from me. She replied and said. I want to be with you but I’m unhappy and not even you want to make me happy, what must I do huh. She refused to listen to anything I was saying. Then she tells me “Good bye you may not believe it but in what ever I had left of a heart, I love you, there’s no one else I can love”. I was like what the hell she loves me I only got to know her a few hours ago. I knew I needed to end things quickly before this girl becomes obsessed.
Then finally I stop replying to her messages. Her final message to me was “Goodbye Vishal there’s no use me having you here cause you just breaking my heart even more”. I was so relieved but I couldn’t handle this anymore. She was suffocating me. This proves that I’m no where ready to be in. a relationship anytime soon.
Personal note: The weird thing is earlier that day I was talking to my friend zak and told him that I wanted a relationship like he has with a girl friend. Then He tells how his having problems and left his girl friend. When I went home after visiting my friend zak. The exact same problem he had happened to me. When I got home that crazy girl invited me on facebook. Zak somehow you passed on your power of girlfriend problems to me. #Lmao Zak never asking you for your advice about women ever again I barely survived this time #lol.
Every guy is turned on by some part of a women’s body. What do I mean? Well some guys are turned on by women with bigger breasts, or thicker thighs. Everything that turns a guy on has to do with a women’s appearance, weather that be she looks sexy, beautiful, nawty, sluty, sweet & innocent or the nerd look etc. We men have that weakness for women, unless you gay.
As for me I love any women in a mini skirt wearing high heels. I just find that to be so hot. Yes it is superficial but so is love at first sight. For example now days on facebook you look at the profile pictures the girls are putting, you gotta admit its pretty dam hot. Besides who wants to see FHM anymore when you can see hotter more natural sexy photos on facebook.
If you haven’t even gotten a hard on from looking at a seductive or attractive female, then I gotta say you must be gay. When I see a hot young girl (**legal age**) wearing a boob tube top with a mini skirt in high heels, its sometimes hard to control your ergers not to go and rip out that girls clothes and have sex with her legs opens and go down on her (**muffing her**). I guess this is my confession of my lust.