The girl I could of had

The girl I could of had

Monday was my 29th birthday and I’ve gotten a lot of wishes from friends and facebook. Late monday afternoon I got a late birthday wish via facebook inbox. It was a girl who wanted to date me a year ago. I didn’t date her because she just broke up with her boyfriend back then and I wasn’t willing to settle for being the rebound guy.

She wished me. We started talking. Eventually she gave me her bbm pin again. I had her bbm pin a year ago but I deleted her because we got into a fight etc. So we haven’t spoken since. We did some catching up and its seems she has a boyfriend now. Sure I had no problem with it, Until! She started talking about her sex life with me which was odd.

She went into great detail about it (“her sex life”) and it turn me on. I wanted her bad. Then! She reminded me about how I didn’t want to date her a year ago and I would of been enjoying her if I was with her now. I wasn’t sure if she was punishing me or making me realise what a mistake I’ve made. Either way I felt jealous.

I told her I was happy for her. Which I was ,but at the same time I didn’t wanna show her I was jealous. So we just friends now but I’m not sure if its healthy because since yesterday she’s been chatting to me non stop on bbm.

jealous #tweets

jealous #tweets

Social networking is what I do! Making friends. Today I noticed on facebook a female friend of mine posted a status follow me on twitter. So I did. We used to chat sometimes via inbox on facebook and had some great conversations.

Today we connected on twitter having some awesome but casual conversations. Nothing flirty. Just general conversation that was going well. Until? I got a tweet from a guy saying leave his girl alone? I was confused. A guy getting jealous over a twitter conversation. Besides she’s all the way in jozi and I’m in durban nothing could go on between us even if we wanted to.

I replied calmly to guy saying it was just a friendly tweet and you got nothing to worry about. We just facebook friends and its true. Well I replied to my friend on facebook. Inboxing and asking her if that is her boyfriend because I didn’t want to cause any problems. Neither has my friend or her fake ass boyfriend has replied. Yet they actively on twitter and facebook after I sent those messages.

Anyway I just think even if that guy is her boyfriend. He got issues. Because his asking me to be antisocial on a social network. Blah blah blah! If his so strict he should tell his girlfriend to stay off social networks for his own insecurity issues.

How many other girls I chat to on twitter that is somebody’s else’s girlfriend but they boyfriends don’t complain. Anyway it is still to be confirmed weather or not he is her boyfriend but I don’t really care. If I wanna tweet a friend I will. Until she tells me to back off only then I will.

frienships drifting apart

frienships drifting apart

Once there was 4 and then there was 2. Now there is one left. I have awesome friends. It used to always be the 4 of us all the time until… I’ll get to that later. We used to be like those guys from the hangover movies doing crazy shit literally. Its hard to accept it that those days are over.

Today is sunday I’m bored out of my mind. Friends are busy so can’t meet up or do anything. I’m alone! Everyone is grown up got their own responsibilities. Yes we chat sometimes through bbm, whatsapp or facebook but it isn’t the same as interacting, laughing and having fun together. Maybe we gotten older and these suppose to happen who knows.

Remember earlier when I said then there was 4 then 2 and finally 1. The reason for that is? When one of your friends tends to get a girl friend she comes 1st. She gives him sex so you know we can’t really compete with that. Then the 2nd friend gets a job out of town. Well friend number 3 is still around until he finally gets a girl friend.

I admit I feel alone sometimes. Sure I have female friends and girls that do want to date me. I just don’t feel like being in a relationship right now cause I don’t think I’m ready for such a commitment. I want to sort my career life out 1st. Once things kick off there I’ll start dating again.

We’ve had some good times. This post is a memory of what was once was. We all still friends but living individual lives. I couldn’t ask for better friends. In memory of the good old days

The guy code myth or legend?

The guy code myth or legend?

The guy code is it myth ,legend or just a rule guys are bound by. Well that rule may apply to americans but not here in south africa. Why? Well just this weekend my friend moses said to my other friend oyeshan, if you had a sister i would be at your house everyday.

I don’t know if people still even use this rule anymore. I have a friend and his serious with his girlfriend and he does not put his bro’s first. So isn’t that breaking the guy code already. Unless you married its bro’s before girlfriends or hoe’s. Also a women should never come between friends ,that is a golden rule.

So what is the bro code exactly?
Well I have the first 10 guy code rules by

1. If you’ve known a guy for more than 24hours, his sister is off limits forever! Unless you actually marry her.

2. When questioned by a friend’s girlfriend,you need not and should not provide any information as to his whereabouts. You are even permitted to deny his very existence.

3. Unless he murdered someone in your immediate family, you must bail a friend out of jail within 24 hours.

4. A best man’s toast may not include any of the following phrases, “down in Tijuana”, “one time when we were all piss drunk”, or “and this girl had the biggest rack you ever saw”.

5. You may exaggerate any anecdote told to your friends by 50% without recrimination,beyond that anyone within earshot is allowed to yell out “bullshit!”. (exception: when trying to pick up a girl, the allowable exaggeration is 400%)

6. Under no circumstances may two men share an umbrella.

7. The minimum amount of time you have to wait for another man is 5 minutes.

8. Bitching about the brand of free beverages in your buddy’s refrigerator is forbidden. But gripe at will if the temperature is not suitable.

9. A friend must be permitted to borrow anything you own – grill, car, first born child -within 12 hr notice. Women or anything considered “lucky” are not applicable in this case.

10. Falling on a grenade for a buddy (agreeing to distract the skanky friend of the hot babe he’s trying to score) is your legal duty. But should you get carried away with your good deed and end up getting on the beast, your pal is forbidden to ever speak of it.

Read the entire the guy code rules from

# Weather this rule is myth or legend its up to you guys to carry on the legacy.