Are now days girls boring? Cause they don’t know how to have a conversation

Are now days girls boring? Cause they don’t know how to have a conversation

Hi I know its been a while. I’m just kinda frustrated. Why? Because I can’t get more than 4 sentences when chatting to a women.

I’m sure if you read a few of my previous posts, you would know there was someone who is interested me but she and a lot off other women I’ve chatted with can’t or don’t know how to have a conversation.

This is how it goes:

Me: Hi

Girl: hi

Me: how you doing?

Girl:K

Me:what you up to

Girl: nothing much

Me: just got back from work. It was a hectic day.

Girl: o okay

(the end)

Like seriously that pisses me off. I mean how hard is it to say something really. I mean how do I get to know you if you replying with vague or one word answers. Its a huge turn off.

I’m not sure how to handle this problem.  Its like when you meet someone and ask them about themselves. Its like don’t do or live a life. They can’t answer nothing about themselves. No interests, no passions, just pointless replies.

I don’t mean all women. I also experimented on a dating website and the out come was pretty much the same. Boring conversations. Believe it or not I’ve had better conversation with ladies in a relationship rather than single ones.

Maybe I’m looking in the wrong place. So the question is? Where is the right place. Where are the interesting women. Anyway just thought I’d share what’s on my mind.

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Are now girls boring? Cause they don’t know how to have a conversation

Are now girls boring? Cause they don’t know how to have a conversation

Hi I know its been a while. I’m just kinda frustrated. Why? Because I can’t get more than 4 sentences when chatting to a women.

I’m sure if you read a few of my previous posts, you would know there was someone who is interested me but she and a lot off other women I’ve chatted with can’t or don’t know how to have a conversation.

This is how it goes:

Me: Hi

Girl: hi

Me: how you doing?

Girl:K

Me:what you up to

Girl: nothing much

Me: just got back from work. It was a hectic day.

Girl: o okay

(the end)

Like seriously that pisses me off. I mean how hard is it to say something really. I mean how do I get to know you if you replying with vague or one word answers. Its a huge turn off.

I’m not sure how to handle this problem.  Its like when you meet someone and ask them about themselves. Its like don’t do or live a life. They can’t answer nothing about themselves. No interests, no passions, just pointless replies.

I don’t mean all women. I also experimented on a dating website and the out come was pretty much the same. Boring conversations. Believe it or not I’ve had better conversation with ladies in a relationship rather than single ones.

Maybe I’m looking in the wrong place. So the question is? Where is the right place. Where are the interesting women. Anyway just thought I’d share what’s on my mind.

30 and still single :(

30 and still single :(

Hi ladies I’m here to share my thoughts on being single. I’d also love some advice from you ladies. I’m single for many years now. I’m friendly, down to earth, easy to chat to. My major problem is I’m to shy in person. I feel like a lot of time has passed and I’m getting older by the day and would like to find someone to share my life with.

Truthful I’m also afraid of being rejected. Its also why I haven’t told many girls how I’ve felt about them. Heart break is incurable. Rejection makes you feel worthless. I have spoken to a few ladies lately but it didn’t go to well, there was no flow. We texted and the conversation went like this.

Me : Hi
Girl : Hi
Me : how you doing
Girl : K
Me, : wuup2
Girl : Ntm
Me : Really so you not doing anything, so u don’t wtv or something.
Girl : sometimes.
Me : what tvshows or series you into.
Girl : a lot

Like what the hell was is with the one word answers. Maybe I should of told her I was horny maybe she would fight with me but even that would of made for a better conversation.

Anyway the real reason I’m writing this post is I feel the clock is running out on me. My friends are getting married, and engaged and I’ll be the only one left single. Its gonna be a lonely path if I don’t catch up. Even my niece is serious with her boyfriend. Dam I got to find someone special. Why is it so hard to find love.

Anyone interested tweet me @vishal4nw or mail me at vishal4nw@gmail.com I honestly don’t mind settling for a long distance or foreign relationship right now.

Smart phones are made for more than just texting, let me tell you why?

Smart phones are made for more than just texting, let me tell you why?

What smart phone do you have? A blackberry, nokia, android or iphone. Well if you just using it for bbm ,instant messaging, facebook and twitter then don’t deserve a smart phone. Wait let me explain why? Smart phones have evolved to mini computers doing almost anything a pc can do? Wanna know more!

Smart phones means smarter apps. Apps that have higher capabilities. Now days smart phone apps can edit photos, edit videos, 3D gaming, high speed internet, video chats, edit spread sheets and word documents. Also you can read books in pdf and epub formats.

Had enough! Well I’m not done yet. Smart phones are also adapted for everything online made mobile. For example? There are apps for managing money. Apps for fitness and health. Banking apps. You wanna blog professionally straight from your smart phone! Well you can with wordpress, tumblr and blogger apps made to manage your blogs with ease.

Let’s not forgot social media. There are apps for every social network like facebook, twitter, gplus, pinterest, myspace and instagram. The list can goes on. That’s why I get pissed when I see people using their smart phones only for texting, when there’s so much more they could do with it. it pays to be curious to experiment with apps and have fun in the process.

#question: To the audience? What are you doing to get the most out of your smart phone.

Can’t remember the last time I got a phone call!

Can’t remember the last time I got a phone call!

I’m sure you think this is a strange title for a post but I assure its true. I can’t remember the last time a friend or family member has called me. This exactly proves the theory of people becoming antisocial. The way we communication is using instant messengers like BBM or whatsapp to talk which gives us no reason to actually call.

To be honest using instant messengers makes me feel like I’m talking to strangers especially if you haven’t spoken to a friend in a long time. We say all we need to say on instant messengers right so that stops us from calling people. This is just my opinions I guess.

If it was your birthday would you rather have someone call you or text you? Text’s are fine but phone calls makes you actually feel like you talking to someone like they actually there. Maybe its just me whose starting to hate texting. All I know is texting made me a antisocial zombie and now I want live human contact interaction.

Explaination!

The best way I can put it is! Would you rather enjoy phone sex or real sex. Of course you choose real sex right! Because you get to interact physically. Life has become so static that we do not interact with one another but hide behind technology to do everything for us. No wonder people are so lazy and unfit its because we depend to much on technology.

#person_note: Remember even technology has its limits.

I’m shy but nawty when it comes to dating girls

I’m shy but nawty when it comes to dating girls

I’m a single shy guy who loves to have fun with the opposite sex, weather it be flirting, making out, dating or just nawty sex chatting. I say I’m shy because in the presences of a beautiful girl its hard to strike up a conversation. I mean we guys are afraid of freezing up or saying the wrong thing because we don’t want to mess up the only chance we get with a girl we like.

I found a way to deal with my shyness by simply using one of my strengths. Since I’m shy around girls in person, I use social networks like facebook to meet girls and seduce them. Yeah you heard right, I said seduce them. Chatting over instant messengers and social networks allows me to be brave and to say what’s really on my mind without the fear of rejection. It’s much easier to flirt by texting which also makes a girl feel safer and more comfortable.

I’ve learnt a lot of tips about flirting from barney stinston who stars in the tv show “how I met your mother” and I also read a few blogs. Using these tips I developed 3 steps in order to seduce these girls.

Step 1 : Make friends with a girl on facebook with similar interests to you.

Step 2 : After chatting to them on facebook for a while its now safe to ask them to invite you on a instant messenger like bbm or whatsapp etc. Now I can chat to her more often or on a more personal level while we getting to know each other because instant messengers gives you access to her at anytime.

Step 3 : Now that we have gotten to know each other over instant messengers. She will feel comfortable with you enough to want to meet you in person. The best part is I won’t feel shy anymore because after getting to know her, I don’t feel intimidated by her now.

The Nawty Chapter!

You can also have a lot of fun after step 2. How? Well if she’s comfortable with you and able to chat to you about anything. Sexting or sex chat is the way to get more intimate with a girl. I’ll be writing an ebook on this post.

I have had many encounters with sexting with girls and it was very nawty. Girls seem to enjoy it more than I taught. Of course like real sex, sexting is more about expressing what you would like to do to a girl, but people do it wrong because they it rush to the end. Sexting is about building up to the orgasm. You have to explain in great detail how you would have four-play with a girl and tell her step by step where and how you would kiss her to get things started. When you sexting with a girl she must be able to imagine you having sex with her. Trust me when I tell you I have done this and many girls have told me that they have had an orgasm from sexting with me because it turned them on so much , that it pushed them to want to mastabate.

Thank you for reading this post look out for my ebook soon on this topic. I like to thank my friend zak for inspiring me to write my first ebook.